What would you want to share in your 7.9 seconds?

I generally don’t do topical commentary. It is difficult to not seem insincere or opportunistic when writing about current issues…nonetheless, that is where I find myself at 1:19AM this Sunday morning. I was ready to go to bed after a day of annoyingly chronic pain but was compelled to write this Quickie. The word “quickie” may suggests disrespect to some, but I ask that you please forgive that unfortunate coincidence. The name of the category and tag only represents the shorter nature of the post, not the 7.9 seconds.

If you have been in the job-hunting market recently and have brushed up on your résumé writing skills, you likely have been encouraged to also develop your elevator pitch.

What would you want to share in your 7.9 seconds?

DEFINITION of ‘Elevator Pitch
A slang term used to describe a brief speech that outlines an idea for a product, service or project. The name comes from the notion that the speech should be delivered in the short time period of an elevator ride, usually 20-60 seconds. Source
Those 20-60 seconds on the ride up before your target audience leaves the elevator for the sequestered privacy of their office is all the time you have to tell them the only thing that matters most to you at that very moment. The heat is at your back and time is running out fast. What is it you would want them to know at that moment? What would you want them to hear?
What if you are going down instead of up…and you only have 7.9 seconds to make a plea from your heart? A plea no one may hear other than God, but that has to be spoken still. Maybe you spend those 7.9 seconds wondering where God is and why He is letting this happen. I can’t say what people would think; I can only wonder.
But the flames are at your back and time is fast running out. Fate offers no option, only a choice of how to reconcile that fate. You choose to step out of the smoking inferno, through a window and begin the 1000 ft. decent to the street below. You have 7.9 seconds to speak your last words. What would you want someone to hear? To know? To remember? Whom would you want to forgive? Whose forgiveness would you seek?
On September 11, 2001, this was the tragic fate of more than one person. I cannot in good conscience call their deaths suicides. They felt rescue had become an impossibility before the fire would consume them. They could go neither up nor down within the building. They felt their fate was sealed and the only control they had left was when and how they would die. And then some chose to be alone for their last 7.9 seconds.
I’m sure they never thought it would happen to them. They probably thought they’d die of old age in a nursing home someday and have time to make peace with whomever necessary. But that is not the way things went. Things may not go that way for you or me either.
Do you know what you would say if you only had 7.9 seconds left? Is that enough time for all you would need to say? If you don’t know what you would want to say, it’s time to give it some thought. If you think you will need more time, I suggest that you start speaking now. You may have more time than 7.9 seconds or only the time it takes to skid across the median and into oncoming traffic. I am certain of one thing though: you will be wishing for more time no matter how long you have. You will be seeking to die in peace and want enough time to find it.
Do you find yourself wondering just how long 7.9 seconds are? These last two carefully constructed sentences, read aloud, could be exactly that.
Don’t wait for that last 7.9 seconds to finally seek peace. There’s nothing that says you can’t start now. Do what needs to be done. Say what needs to be said. To die in merciful peace is desired; but, to live in peace by grace is a blessing. Show mercy and make peace now. Find peace now and live a blessed life. May God’s grace be upon all those lost on 9/11, and His peace be upon those who were left to mourn them.

9 responses to “What would you want to share in your 7.9 seconds?

  1. Thank you for such a touching and thought provoking post…I do know what I would say in my last 7.9 seconds…the same thing I say every night before I go to sleep.

    Hugs and blessings…Cat

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    • Cat- One thing I made sure to tell both of my parents before they died was that I was proud of them. Both died years apart after prolonged illnesses so I had more than 7.9 seconds to talk with them. As important as it is to know you are loved and respected by those you care about, it is no less important to know they are proud of you. As children we all want our parents to be proud of us but don’t often realize our parents want us to be proud of them. It’s even more important when there is a possibility they never heard it from their parents.

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  2. Just reading about the terrible choice to jump or burn gives me sweaty palms. I know you aren’t suggesting we focus on that choice, but instead consider the state of our relationships. Too many times we walk around with important things left unsaid as if we have forever when the truth is we will never feel we have enough time with those we love. Thank you for the reminder to be intentional and keep current.

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    • Yesterday beguiles us into thinking there will be yet another tomorrow; another time; another chance. Even if the bell does not toll for us, it will toll for someone else and it may be the one we meant to speak to.

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  3. None of us are promised a tomorrow, none. It’s sobering thinking about it. I leave for my 12 hours away from Farmer with the words, “I love you!” and a hug.

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  4. I’m sorry that I am late to be reading and responding to your moving, thought provoking post.

    I am grateful that I get to read this and really consider what I would want my last thoughts and words to be. 7.9 seconds is not long enough to express all I would want to say and I hope and pray that I use my time, no matter if it is short or long, on this earth to truly tell and show my friends, family and loved-ones how much they truly mean to me everyday.

    Thank you for reminding us that only God knows how much longer we have on earth and we get to chose how we use it in relation to how we express our feelings towards others and how we do it before we are at our last elevator pitch.

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    • Warrior Princess- No apology is necessary. There is no “read/reply by” expiration date on my posts, especially this one. You’ve read it while there is time to do more than a 7.9 second speech to express your love to those who love you.

      I’m so very sorry the past two years have been particularly difficult for you, not that those before have been without trial. I especially hope you no longer have need for your K-Club membership. I live with nowhere near the pain you do, but I do have a few new chronic pains this year and have experienced more than a couple of family deaths. I had been posting on average once a week and then life visited some inconveniences that took the wind out of my sails. All that is to say, though I miss your blog, I very much understand how painful experiences can cause one to loose emotional interest in reading and writing in the blogoshpere as well as just plain physically wear you down.

      It’s good to hear from you again and I know members of this community will be praying for you. Stop by when you like; write if you wish; we’ll be looking forward to your visits.

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      • Thank you Dan,
        I am so sorry that you are dealing with chronic pain as well and have also lost family members, neither type of pain is easy to deal with and does affect the amount of energy needed to write and read blogs.
        I appreciate your kind encouragement to continue blogging and your kind prayers. I will be keeping you in my daily prayers and look forward to reading more of your blogs and hopefully finishing some of the blogs I started recently so I can post them. I’m hoping once I can get Medicare to work with me to expedite my coverage for home health care I will have more energy and will not be spending as much time getting to know the nurses at the hospital my doctor has privileges at.

        I hope this finds you in as little pain as possible and your good days outnumber your bad days,
        Andrea

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